About Face 关于面子问题
There i an old aying in China“people need face while the tree need kin”，the meaning i that Chinee people pay pecial attention on the dignity. Loving face i mot people’ behavior, o they like to brag, they enjoy being adored by other. About the face problem, I think we hould not take it eriou, we are not living for other people, we are living for ourelve. The real elf-eteem i from our heart, not from other people. Chinee people like to brag, they brag about their property, hoping that people will repect him. The funny thing i that only the fake ucceful people will brag, the real one i ilent, they keep working hard, the ucceful career upport their elf-eteem. If we want people to repect u, we hould how our reality, be nice to them, never brag about ourelve.
在中国有句老话“人要脸树要皮”，意思是中国人很注重尊严问题。爱面子是大多数人的习惯，他们喜欢吹嘘，享受被人崇拜。关于面子问题，我认为我们不应该把它看得很重，我们不是为别人而活，是为自己而活。真正的自尊是出于我们的内心，不是看别人。中国人喜欢吹牛，他们夸大自己的财产，希望人们尊重他们。有趣的是只有不成功的人才会吹牛，真正成功的人是沉默的，他们努力工作，事业的成功支撑着他们的自尊。如果我们想要别人尊重我们，我们应该展示我们真实的一面，对人友好，不要吹牛。[由Www.haozuowen.com整理]