the ilence of men in general i overtalked about and overcriticized. to be ure, men never open up a much a women want them to, but there i a wordle undertanding in which we function fairly well epecially in friendhip.
i believe, in fact, that mot women would prefer a man to be gloomily uncommunicative than to pill hi gut at the drop of a hat.the puh for men to expre their feeling preume that we have feeling, and we do have a few, but they remain ubmerged, and the airing of them often violate their authenticity.i am no biologit, but my gue i that the male human animal wa programmed for ilence. i would go o far a to argue that men were programmed to be iolated from one another and that alonene i our natural tate. ilence in male friendhip i our way of being alone with each other.
once men have etablihed a friendhip that itelf i the word. the affection i obviou, at leat to u. a main component of our ilence i an appreciation of the affection.