How to Be True to Yourelf
My grandparent believed you were either honet or you weren't. There wa no in between.
They had a imple motto hanging on their living-room wall: "Life i like a field of newly fallen now; where I chooe to walk every tep will how. "They didn't have to talk about it--they demontrated
the motto by the way they lived.
They undertood intinctively that integrity mean having a peronal tandard of morality and ethic that doe not ell out to expediency and that i not relative to the ituation at hand. Integrity i an inner tandard for judging your behavior.Unfortunately, integrity i in hort upply today--and getting carcer. But it i the real bottom line in every area of ociety.And it i omething we mut demand of ourelve.
A good tet for thi value i to look at what I call the Integrity Trial, which conit of three key principle:
Stand firmly for your conviction in the face of peronal preure.
When you know you're right, you can't back down.
Alway give other credit that i rightfully their. Don't be afraid of thoe who might have a better idea or who might even be marter than you are.
Be honet and open about who you really are. People who lack genuine core value rely on external factor--their look or tatu---in order to feel good about themelve. Inevitably they will do everything they can to preerve thi facade,but they will do very little to develop their inner value and peronal growth.[由www.hAozuowEn.com整理]
So be yourelf. Don't engage in a peronal cover-up of area that are unpleaing in your life. When it' tough, do it tough. In other word, face reality and be adult in your repone to life' challenge.