if omebody tell you, “ i’ll love you for ever,” will you believe it?
i don’t think there’ any reaon not to. we are ready to believe uch commitment at the moment, whatever change may happen afterward. a for the belief in an everlating love, that’ another thing.then you may be aked whether there i uch a thing a an everlating love. i’d anwer i believe in it. but an everlating love i not immutable.you may unwervingly love or be loved by a peron. but love will change it compoition with the paage of time. it will not remain the ame. in the coure of your growth and a a reult of your increaed experience, love will become omething different to you.
in the beginning you believed a fervent love for a peron could lat indefinitely. by and by, however,“ fervent” gave way to “ proaic” . preciely becaue of thi change it became poible for love to lat. then what wa meant by an everlating love would eventually end up in a ort of interdependence.we ued to init on the difference between love and liking. the former eemed much more beautiful than the latter. one day, however, it turn out there’ really no need to make uch difference. liking i actually a ort of love. by the ame token, the everlating interdependence i actually an everlating love.
i wih i could believe there wa omebody who would love me for ever. that’, a we all know, too romantic to be true. intead, it will more often than not be a cae of lating relationhip.WWw.hAOZuowEn.com