学会自立(Learn to Stand on Your Own Feet)
In every chool a "top" crowd et the pace, while the other follow their lead. Let＇ ay the top crowd decide that it i mart to wear bright red weater.Pretty oon everybody i wearing a bright
red weater. There i nothing wrong with that, except the fact that on ome people a bright red weater i extremely unbecoming. The ituation can even become dangerou, if the top crowd decide that it i mart to drink or to drive car at eventy mile an hour.Then the people who follow the lead are endangering their live. They are like the heep being led to the butcher.
Now, chance are that you have come acro ituation like thee more than once in your life; chance are that one time or another you probably did omething you knew to be wrong. You may have excued yourelf by aying, "Gee, the crowd doe it." Well, let the crowd do it, but don＇t do it
yourelf. Learn to ay, "No."
Develop your own tandard and your own judgment. If you know the crowd i planning omething you diagree with,have the courage to bow out politely. You＇ll have the atifaction of tanding on your own two feet.
学会自立
每所学校中都有一群领头学生做出榜样，其他人蜂拥效仿。比如这些领头学生决定穿鲜红色羊毛衫很时尚，那很快人人都会穿着鲜红色羊毛衫。这件事本身没什么问题，除了有些人极不适合穿鲜红色毛衫这一事实。但如果这些领头学生觉得喝酒或以70英里的时速开车很时尚的话，情况甚至会变得危险起来。这些盲从的学生在危及自己的生命。他们就像被领到屠夫前的羊群。[由Www.haozuowen.com整理]
在你生命中，这种情况你可能遇到不止一次；可能你时不时也会做自己知道是不对的事情。你可能会为自己开脱说：“大家都在这么做嘛。”那让大家这么做好了，但你自己不要这样做。要学会说“不。”
要有自己的标准和判断。如果你知道大家正计划你不赞成的事情，鼓起勇气礼貌地退出。你会为自己学会自立感到满意的。