With the development of informationization, the pace of life in the city peed up, while human communication become uperficial and reduced. Therefore, many people attend to find hortcut to find their poue by advertiing on newpaper, TV or Internet. Becaue they think it ave their time a well a help them to find their ideal couple. However, a far a I oberve, thi o-call quick and convenient way may do more harm than good.
随着信息化的发展，城市生活节奏的加快，人际交往变得肤浅和减少。因此，很多人想寻找捷径，通过在报纸，电视或者网络上打广告来寻找他们的配偶。因为他们认为这样不仅节省了时间而且能够帮助他们找到理想伴侣。然而，就我观察来看，这一所谓的快捷方便的方式弊大于利。
Firt, a we all know that advertiement are tempting but deceptive. In order to attract target cutomer, the advertiement are full filled with decorated expreion. The advertiement for poue, with no exception, will either exaggerate their wealth or fabricate their tatu and identity in order to tempt te prey. For example, an ugly man with bad temper will decribe himelf a a handome and even-tempered.
首先，我们都知道，广告是诱人的，但也是骗人的。为了吸引目标顾客，广告的装饰方式琳琅满目。征婚广告也不例外，要么夸大他们的财富或者捏造他们的地位和身份以诱惑猎物。比如，一个又丑脾气又差的男人会把自己描述成帅气而且好脾气的人。[由www.hAozuowEn.com整理]
Second, even if you were lucky enough not to get deceived in the beginning and happened to find a poue through the advertiement, there would till be many problem in later life, becaue the poue got in thi way may be untable. Before they know each other, they live in quite different ocial interaction. They may be different in temper, interet and life tyle. Therefore, it' hard for the two to live peacefully together. Beide, marriage i the combination of two familie. Except for the two, their familie are important factor that have great impact on their marriage.
其次，即使你一开始很幸运没有被骗，碰巧通过广告找到了伴侣，以后的生活中仍然存在很多问题，因为以这种方式找到的伴侣是不稳定的。在他们了解彼此之前，他们生活在截然不同的社交环境中。他们的脾气，兴趣和生活方式可能会不同。因此，这样的两个人是很难在一起和平生活的。此外，婚姻是两个家庭的结合。除了他们两人外，他们的家庭也是对婚姻产生影响的重要因素。
From the dicuion above, it' hard for people to find their poue through advertiement. What we hould do i openour mind and take effort to manage the olid true love intead of approaching it by chance. Only in thi way can we find the mot appropriate poue and experience the mot enduring love.
从以上的讨论我们可以看出，通过广告来寻找配偶是很难的。我们应该做的就是打开我们的心灵，努力经营坚实的真爱，而不是偶然接近它。只有这样我们才能找到最适合的伴侣，体验最持久的爱情。