我们能让这世界变得更美好么？这句话本身就是一个错误的假设，认为这世界不好。反过来，我们应该说世界就是这样的，没有什么绝对的好与不好。这是我们选择的生活方式，也是我们喜欢的生活方式。换个角度看待事物：接受并试着理解。接受这世界，你会快乐。
“There i nothing either good or bad,but thinking make it o.”—William Shakepeare, “Hamlet”
One of the greatet ource of unhappine, in my experience, i the difficulty we have in accepting thing a they are.
Without judgment, without wihing for otherwie.
When we ee omething we don't like, we wih it could be different — we cry out for omething better. That may be human nature, or perhap it' omething that' ingrained in our culture.
The root of the unhappine in't necearily that we want thing to be different,均衡膳食(Balanced diet), however: it' that we decided we didn’t like it in the firt place. We've judged it a bad, rather than aying, "It' not bad or good, it jut i."
An example: In my recent pot, A Beautiful Method to Find Peace of Mind, quite a few commenter thought my outlook wa negative, peimitic, or fatalitic … becaue I aid you hould expect people to me up, expect thing to go differently than you planned, and that you hould embrace that.[由好作文www.hAOzuowEn.com整理]
It' too negative to expect thing to go wrong, they aid. However: it' only negative if you ee it a negative. If you judge it a bad.
Intead, you could accept it a the way the world work — a the way thing actually are. And try to undertand why that i, and embrace it. A it i.
Thi can be applied to whatever you do: whether it be how other people act at work, how politic work and how depreing the new media can be. Accept thee thing a they are, and try to undertand why they're that way.
It'll ave you a lot of grief, becaue you'll no longer ay, "Oh, I wih thing didn't uck,英国的酒吧文化(Britih Pub Culture)!"
Doe it mean you can never change thing? Not at all. But change thing not becaue you can't accept thing a they are, but becaue you enjoy the proce of change, of learning and growing.
Can we make thi world a better place? Again, that' auming that it' a bad place right now. But intead, you could ay the world i jut what it i — and that' neither good nor bad. You can ay that you'll continue to try to do thing to help other, to grow a a peron, to make a difference in thi world — not becaue you're uch a bad peron now, or the world uck, but becaue that' the path you chooe to take, becaue you enjoy that path.
A you catch yourelf judging, and wihing for different — and we all do it — try a different approach: accept, and undertand. It might lead to ome intereting reult.