Love mean that I care about the welfare of the peron I love to extent that it i genuine ,my caring i not a mothering of the peron or a poeive clinging .I’m concerned about hi growth and I hope he will become all that he can become ,and never put up roadblock to what he doe that enhance him a a peron.
Love mean having repect for the dignity of the peron I love .See him a a eparate peron ,with hi own value and thought and feeling, and I don’t init that he urrender hi identity and conform to an image of what I expect him to be for me .I can allow and encourage him to tand alone and to be who he i ,and avoid treating him a an object or uing him primarily to gratify my own need .
I n hort ,in love tow being become one and yet remain two.